亲亲老爸

  已经不是《红》里的那个年轻女人，深陷的眼窝还是很有神采。片子里还有《六人行》里ross前妻的同性恋女友扮演者。
  温馨的家庭气氛让人觉得很踏实。love...听到这词就有点作呕。都tm一个样。

    很多电影都被遗忘在硬盘里了，直到再次发现它们时，多半也忘记了故事梗概或者演员阵容。这样很好，真的。总会有surprise的。
     一如这部《Dan in Real Life》，典型的温情派爱情轻喜剧。故事围绕家庭，爱情，亲情，道德，困境，成长。Steve Carell的演技值得称赞，把Dan的微妙心里处理的很好。Juliette Binoche浑身散发着淡淡的光。尽管有个好导演，剧情未能跳脱出好莱坞式有情人终成眷属的套路，而某些细节也有铺陈的嫌疑。但它仍真实的打动了我的心。
    温馨的家庭氛围，期间点缀着轻快和幽默。但我忘不了Dan落寂的神情，那是对生活的承受和付出。而作为一个出色的“家庭专栏”作者，他和女儿的关系却陷入了困境。
    而发生在雨天书店的邂逅，似乎就是生活中随时降临的surprise。那个长镜头很静也很美：枫叶红的秋，灰蒙蒙的雨，蓝色海潮，木头小屋，一杯咖啡，诉说和倾听，一个男人和一个女人。而，一杯咖啡的时间，可以很长，也可以很短。我情不自禁的想起了和他初相遇的情景，那些畅谈至今仍然完美，我第一次觉得4小时的旅途，很短。如果许我一生，该有多好。
    生活也从未停止制造下一个surprise。再次相遇，却遭遇尴尬。于是我看到一个在爱情，亲情，道德里挣扎的男人。即便压抑，隐忍，但在爱情面前，谁都会变得疯狂。只因爱情如果是feel,那对爱的渴望便是本能。Dan替弟弟说出爱的描绘时的神情，女儿指责他不懂什么是爱时，那以疑问句开头的有着击中人心的独白。三张罚单的微妙场景。等等。此刻，如果问自己爱情是什么，谁又能说得清呢？
    这部电影的最后几个场景，让我意识到这个春天遇见的短暂美好，便是爱情。还未真正开始，便已结束。

what is it?
it's frustrating that you can't be with this person ？
that... that there's something keeping you apart ,something about this person you connect with?
and whenever you're near this person, you don't konw what to say , and you say everything, that's in you mind,and in your heart .
and you konw that if you could just be together,and this person will hlep you become the best possible version of yourself.
you know that feeling in you heart , when your heart is just pounding, and like it's actually outside your ribs.
exposed ,vulnerable,wonderful and awful. and heartsick and alive ,all at the same time .
what do you call that?
uh, love.

     你有多久不是在特定的节假日，回到家里，一家人聚在一起享受生活的乐趣了？

  《丹的真实生活》史蒂夫.卡瑞尔07年的作品。朱丽叶.比诺什带着甘蓝色的文艺气质加盟此片，她所饰演的女主人公玛莉为丹的感情生活注入了脉动的活力。而喜剧明星丹尼.库克作为男二号，也毫不客气地发挥出了自己的演技。至于史蒂夫.卡瑞尔，我要说他是个很聪慧的喜剧演员，懂得另辟蹊径，不夸张，但也不低调，全部精力用在他那张脸上，他就是普通人里能让你瞧见的那个普通人。

   影片算不上超级经典，但足够温馨暖人。可能会有些小小的遗憾，比如你设想它是搞笑片，那会显得有些牵强；想象它是部要探讨人生的哲理片，又会发现轻松幽默的色调充满全片。但只要你停止思考，权当跟着镜头去这家串门，那收获就多了。单亲家庭的心酸，父母与孩子间沟通的法则，鳏夫男人的困惑，兄弟同时爱上一个女人的尴尬，这些故事情节热热闹闹地组合在一起，讲出了一个有关爱的电影。

   而且我还要说有一点是绝对值得你为此耗费一个多小时的，去感受一个家庭在一起营造的生活气息吧。吃饭、做游戏、像过节一样，全家人都参与到彼此的生活中。

很温暖的亲情&爱情喜剧 看的我那叫一舒坦
还有如果你也喜欢片尾曲，就跟着一起唱吧！！！

http://www.9ymp3.com/html/song/19/55715.html

Sondre Lerche - Modern Nature Lyrics

The moment has come to face the truth
I'm wide awake, and so are you
Do you have a clue what this is? (I don't know)
Are you everything that I miss? (I don't hope so)
We'll just have to wait and see (Wait, and see)
If things go right we're meant to be

The surface is gone, we scratched it off
We made some plans, and let them go
Do you have the slightest idea (No, I don't)
Why the world is bright with you here? (Oh, is that so?)
Stay a while and wait and see (wait, and see)
If things go right we're meant to be


Oh, what a world this life would be
Forget all your technicolour dreams
Forget modern nature
This is how it´s meant to be

The time is here for being straight
It´s not too early and never too late
People say I should watch my pace (What do they know?)
"Think how you spend all your days" (They all say so)
They´ll just have to wait and see (Wait, and see)
If things go right they´ll have to agree

Oh, what a world this life would be
Forget all your technicolour dreams
Forget modern nature
This is how it´s meant to be
Do you have the slightest idea (No, I don't)
Why the world is bright with you here? (Oh, is that so?)
Stay a while and wait and see (wait, and see)
If things go right we're meant to be

Oh, what a world this life would be
Forget all your technicolour dreams
Forget modern nature
This is how it´s meant to be

Forget modern nature
This is how it´s meant to be

刚刚看完Dan in Real Life。好看，很喜欢。
刚开始，是一个中规中矩的单亲老爸形象，洗衣，做饭，往面包片上涂果酱的动作多么娴熟，抗击小男孩的入侵多么决绝。我边看边在心里盘算可以推荐给某人看，与那个法国片Mon père, ce héros相映成趣。
不想，过了一会，老爸忽然变成了冲动的小男孩，看着弟弟与朱丽叶·比诺什腻歪眼中喷火啊！so，这不是一个讲父女关系的片子，而是讲中年男人感情的，与Mon père, ce héros说的根本不是一码事儿。
但是，好看，甚至可以说，很好看。
很温暖，大家族的亲情十分感动人心。当然，人家平常不住一块儿。
人多就是好啊！你看人家这一大家子可以集体做广播操，可以组织个球赛，可以搞个联欢会……
话说老爸的情绪异常引起了众人的关注，大家给他介绍了个女朋友。在等待该女朋友到达的时候，大家却又不停地说人家“pigface”，还编成歌儿唱，这都是些什么人啊！
哦，还要提一下朱丽叶·比诺什，居然还是那样身姿曼妙，风情万种。

"...Second, which I will call secondary representations, is that category of films which feature journalists, often as central characters, but in which journalism is an incidental element of the story. One thinks here (The Shipping News), where the subject of journalism--the job into which the central character is propelled by events--is less important to the playing out of the story than the movie's main themes of personal redemption and rediscovery."

"The same point can be made of Dan in Real Life, which stars Steve Carell as a recently bereaved newspaper 'agony uncle'. Secondary representations may be concerned with the life issues which a person who just happens to be a journalist might encounter in or out of the working environment. Journalism may in this context function as an important plot device, as in Dan in Real Life, where the lead character's journalistic status is principally a vehicle for establishing him as a certain kind of personality--intellectual, sensitive--with a certain kind of romantic potential, here developed in his relationship with Juliette Binoche's character. The nature of his journalism, or the processes which lead to its production are not discussed or explored in any depth in the film--it is simply there in the background. Steve Carell's Dan could have been a poet of novelist, if the aim were simply to construct a character who is a writer. Creating him as a columnist allows the script to play on the ironies of a man who gives public advice on relationships to his readers, but is somewhat dysfunctional in his own private life. Beyond this, his journalism is marginal to the story."

(Journalists in Film by Brian McNair)